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Sunday, January 30, 2011

Secret Sunday

This picture amazes me, it's completely unretouched. They say the eyes are windows to the soul...

Hey everyone welcome to the third round of Secret Sunday, a chance to share secrets and/or fantasies you've been keeping to yourself. Some are uplifting, some are heartbreaking and some are just plain naughty.

All are valid.

Here's how it works:

1) This is open to anyone who wants to participate, from regular follower to casual visitor.

2) I don't plan to censor content or language. However I do reserve the right not to post anything which appears to be submitted with the sole intent of offending. I also reserve the right to include submissions that may be considered controversial. It's a fine line sometimes.

3) I'd like everyone to please refrain from negatively commenting on what someone else has written; what may seem trivial to you can be very personal to someone else. Everyone has feelings and I want to see them respected, therefore I won't be posting inappropriate comments.

4) If this is something you'd like to run on your blog please feel free. You may copy the rules if you wish.

And now to it...


  1. I don't know how to fall out of love but he has and so I must. Every morning that I wake up, I must pull a sword out of my chest. Any tips on getting over someone?

  2. Move on and start meeting people. There is always someone better than someone that treats you like crap.

  3. The previous commenter put it short and sweet. I realize it's easier said than done but they're right.

    Getting over someone, regardless of how they might have treated you, begins with yourself. I think you need to realize your own value first, know that you're worthy of being loved. That there's not anything wrong with you, he just wasn't the right guy. Especially if he mistreated you.

    I've had my share of relationships. I've only recently discovered that (for me) the best way to make peace with the way things have gone in the past is to realize not everyone is meant to be together. Love doesn't always last. But I also feel we take something with us from each relationship that we can learn and grow from. What that is will be up to you to find.

    You'll be okay. :)